1. Know who you are and what you want by having a clear Vision, Life Purpose, Requirements, etc.
  2. Learn how to get what you want by acquiring information, tools, and skills. Develop an effective Relationship Plan.
  3. Be the “Chooser” and take personal responsibility for your life and relationships.
  4. Balance your heart with your head- it’s still exciting!
  5. Be ready and available for commitment.
  6. Use the “Law of Attraction” – “If you build it, they will come.”
  7. Gain relationship knowledge and skills.
  8. Create a support community.
  9. Increase your personal power by being authentic, assertive, exercising boundaries, saying “no” to what you don’t want and taking responsibility for getting what you do want.
  10. Be a “successful single” – you’re your Vision, don’t put your life on hold waiting for a relationship.